Your body. We all have a vision of what we want our body to look like. Or they way we think we want it to look. We have to be careful and clear. In all things, your body will follow your thoughts. What you think about your body becomes it’s reality.
I typically ask clients to choose three adjectives of what they want their body to be: i.e Slender, Muscular, Strong (those are mine) and to use them as a mantra during their cardio workouts. Just as you would use an affirmation to change other aspects of your life. Be very clear what you want out of your body and WHY. Are you keeping up with the Kardashian’s or will it functionally improve your life and your sense of power in the world? Be clear on not only what you want but why you want it.
The functional part: Train your body the way you want it to look, strong and supported, so pull the abdominals in the entire workout. Eventually they will learn to live there. Let your chest be open and strong, and it will follow suit. Relax your shoulders away from your ears and soon it won’t be a thought for them to stay there. Connect your upper back and soon it will automatically engage.
Also, look at the bodies you admire. Train with someone who looks like that. Yes, genetics play a big role, however, you want to train with the people that you like the result they get. Are they sinewy and flexible, are they thicker and crazy strong? Choose someone you look up to and it will be easier to listen and be guided by them.
Keep your goal in mind as often as possible. Stand a little taller in the shower, take a break from your desk and stretch your chest open. Start living with the body you want right now and it will begin unfolding, right now.